Falsely Accused Coach Wants His Life Back by Mike Mahon Independent News - Canadian Press News

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Mike Mahon
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Being falsely accused of a sexual crime holds a significant sigma attached to it. It is ingrained into our society that if accused, your assumed guilty, even after an acquittal.

"I want my life back", says Ray Collingham after his acquittal of sexually assaulting a former gymnastics student of his. Ray was a gymnastics coach in the Durham Region area for 20 years and has always maintained a professionalism that parents of his students always admired and complimented him on. Reading off many of his recommendations from former students, teachers and parents, he holds an impressive resume. "I feel like I have to explain myself to everyone, he says. "This boy's mom is continuing to harass and point the finger at me." Collingham states that she is making herself libel and slanderous after his acquittal.

The mother's hacking into Collingham's e-mail and Facebook accounts -- something she admitted in court, saying she wrote e-mails from Collingham's accounts -- that caused police to investigate Collingham and ultimately charge him. The hacking took place in early 2007, a few months before he was arrested.

Upon reading the transcripts of the boy's mothers testimony it indeed confirms that hacking into his account was part of the reasonable doubt Judge Salmers states in his verdict. "I am left with a reasonable doubt whether any of the alleged criminal contact or any criminal contact occurred," Salmers said in his ruling. The acquittal was based on what Salmers said were inconsistencies in statements and testimony by the mother and the complainant. He further stated that the sexual encounters described by the complainant were "not plausible" to have happened. One incident described was having oral sex in a public park on a 10 second water slide.

Now that his 2 year wait for the truth has emerged, he now faces another incredible challenge. While scanning the Internet, Mr. Collingham picks up on conversations made by the mother in public forums for anyone to read. "The mother threatened to get me before I was actually arrested in 2007 and now she continues to threatened me publicly." It is now public knowledge that the mother is threatening that Collingham "will pay" in one form or another. "She is trying to set me up again, says Collingham, "but now everyone knows what she is trying to do."

Upon reading the comments on the forums, I can now say how bizarre this case has become. Talking to a private investigator working at monitoring these statements, the anonymous investigator says, "I have the means to locate certain materials that the public does not necessarily have access to - we are using all our tools." "When someone writes derogatory remarks and posts them online or in writing and those comments become public, they become libel statements," he says.

In the case of an acquittal, Mr. Collingham is entitled to be free of libel comments. "I know this will be another couple of years of hell to go through, but it will be worth it, eventually", Collingham says. "If she continues, she is making things worse for herself".

The boy's identity is protected by a court order. The ban also includes a ban on identifying the mother of the complainant. However, the ban does not cover comments made on public forums.

"Wake up and smell the shit that you really are! You write articles full of lies and sick comments and think you will continue to get away with it? I don't think so! You will pay..doesn't mean you won't pay."

One post made identified by the mother also states, "I keep thinking I could have done more, could have done better on the stand" the mother says. Leaving one to wonder what exactly she means by "could have done better on the stand," Collingham says he knows exactly what she means, "she should have lied better is more like it" he says.

m-mahon @ live.com

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