Video: Parenting For A Peaceful World - The Childrens Wellbeing Manifesto - Written By Robin Grille

Parenting For A Peaceful World - 25th March 2009 - 7 Minutes 48 Seconds - Robin Grille, author of "Parenting for a Peaceful World", and also " "Heart to Heart Parenting" shares some profound information about children and parenting practices around the world and throughout history. Learn more about Robin at www.our-emotional-health.com Narrated by Aja Swafford, created by Jacob Devaney for www.culturecollective.org, and written by Robin Grille. The Childrens Wellbeing Manifesto http://www.our-emotional-health.com - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cp8tKUQtEsk

Hi guy's I am feeling excited to be on the verge of living in love, released from the paralysing fear that is so pervasive and want to share this brilliant and accessible recent work by Robin Grille, youtube link below; and some other excellent writing, well I hope you think so.
With loving enthusiasm from Cath

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From: Thomson, Sofi

Thought you might like to check this out. Robin Grille, who compiled our education program Parenting Heart2Heart has put this u-tube on public domain.

Enjoy! If regret is felt know that from here on with a supportive community, yes we can - BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO SEE IN THE WORLD Gandhi

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cp8tKUQtEsk

Pattern of Pain

Withholding

The most common form of withholding is what we commonly call "the silent treatment," but withholding encompasses any unwillingness to express your true feelings. It also includes an unwillingness to give support, praise, or positive attention to the people you love. We have all known someone who is impossible to please, and many of us have suddenly found ourselves at the other end of a chilly silence with no explanation. At the same time, many of us will recognize our own tendency to withhold our emotions rather than express them. Most of us have seen both sides of the withholding dilemma. Emotional pain is at the root of our tendency to withhold, and withholding causes pain to the people subjected to it. It is a dysfunctional pattern that creates a breakdown in communication and understanding.

No one deserves to be subjected to withholding. Feeling ignored, disrespected, or shut out, and to not know why, is a terrible feeling. The first thing to remember if this is happening to you is that you are not to blame. You are caught in someone else’s pain pattern. This person does not know how to express feelings in a healthy way probably because this is what they learned when she or he was a child. The second helpful thing to remember is that the withholder is acting out of pain. They are stuck in a habitual mode of response that is self-defeating and alienating to the people they love. Remembering this will help you feel compassion for the person hurting you. However, if you have suffered too long with this pattern, you may need to get some space. Take some time to look at your own patterns and understand why you have taken part in this drama. If you are dealing with people in a family situation, you can step up to the plate to help break the chain of this behavior pat! tern.

If, on the other hand, it is you that tends to withhold, understand that this is a learned response and it can be unlearned. Find safe places to begin to express all that you’ve been holding back. Begin to make an effort to say what you’re feeling and thinking. Give praise to someone you love. The more you do this, the healthier you and your relationships will become. What was learned over a course of a life cannot be changed overnight—remember, one day at a time.

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Sofi Thomson
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